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I'm one that likes to analyze situations and give advice based on said situation. Now, since I don't know you on a personal level, I have to make some baseless assumptions, but I'll try to cover those by ifs and other nonsure type of words.
First of all, I would probably tell you to see a psychiatrist, but you have the problem of not having any income to do that with. You should go try to look for a job. Not only would that get you out of the house more, away from the parents you don't think you can trust, but it would allow you to go out and possibly meet some friends. Once you have a job, you can start saving up for the things you mentioned, and maybe possibly some program at a community college, or if you're feeling really ambitious, a university. Now, I'm going to answer each of your numbered problems. Numbers correspond. 1. You can get out of your bedroom and go for a walk or something. Get some fresh air and some sunshine. It's never hurt anyone to be outside fo a not so long period of time. 2. If you can't trust anyone in your family, you've come to the right place... sort of. Sure, we'll listen to your problems here, but we aren't professionals. We can give you honest opinions but we can't say that you should follow them. Not everyone that goes to a Psychiatrist is crazy, but as I said earlier, you really can't go to one, huh? 3. I don't know what gives you this stress and anxiety exactly, but I know how it feels to be overstressed. This has happened maybe once or twice, but I swear to you when I get stressed, I get on the brink of insanity. For me, talking it out helps. I'm sure there's medicine to keep you settled down as well. 4. Again, psychiatrist, but you need money. Everything in this world seems to need money, but it can't always be found. It's always gotta be worked for. I'll stop there before I go off even more on a tangent. And no one should ever be mocked about suicidal thoughts. You should tell someone that'll listen, even if it is only here. Go on the chatbox or something. There's usually at least one person there. 5. As for that problem, all it needs is a little bit of self-confidence, and a little bit of counterargument. I mean, if they want you to move out, you should be able to do what you want to do. It's that easy of a case to make. 6. This probably accurately describes me when I'm stressed, which isn't that often. I suggest that you try to calm down once a day for maybe 10-20 minutes. Perhaps calming music or videos, or maybe something you like to do for fun just to get the turbulence out of your head. Life can't be all worrying. 7. Nightmares are dreams, and only that. If you can realize they're dreams while you're sleeping, you could make it a lucid dream, and make it the best one you've ever had. And just remember that dreams aren't real. By no means should it really bother you in your waking hours. 8. Things change, but only if you make them change. You're the one in control of your life. Nothing will ever change to you unless you change it yourself. Notice the number of yous in that particular part? It's because it need's your involvement to happen. Like you stated before, you're in your room almost 24 hours a day. Sitting in your room isn't going to change anything. Life is what you make of it, and it's a precious gift not to be wasted. You only get one of them, after all. 9. Comfort objects are alright. I find myself needing something every once in awhile. It may seem that it's the only thing you have if you think you live in a world where no one cares. It's perfectly logical. I mean, take the Companion Cube in Portal for example. 10. That's natural as well, but you need to build up the bravery to endure any outcome that may happen. You can only avoid conflict so long before it catches up to you and you actually have to do something about it at a moment's notice. I'm almost done with this, but I'll address your last little thing that doesn't have a number. I don't know much about it, but I know sometimes I want to hit something, but I have to think about the outcome before it. What will it accomplish really? Nothing except hurting a loved one. It's an exercise of not only self control, but critical thinking. Analyzing a situation before going through with it is never a bad idea. Now, I'm not saying don't let emotions take hold, or emotions are bad or anything, but what I'm saying is that don't let your anger control you. Now, you have my sympathy. You truly do. I've told you all that I can think of; All that has come into my head while reading your story has been typed out into this response. I can only hope this makes you feel better, and gives you the initiative to go out and do something, and given you a brighter outlook. |
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